It’s a living thing….

Conversations with your children often bring up long forgotten memories)

Summer 1978 – The Golfer and I were the best parents in the world! 

At least that’s what we were told that warm February evening as we all sat near the front (not up the back ‘in the cheap seats’ on the grass) of the Myer Music Bowl waiting to hear this sung in real life

Sailin’ away on the crest of a wave, it’s like magic 
Oh, rollin’ and ridin’ and slippin’ and slidin’, it’s magic 
And you and your sweet desire 
You took me, oh (higher and higher, baby)…

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It’s nearly four years since ‘our big girl’ and her partner left town (towing their home behind them) looking forward to doing ’a big lap’ of Australia. 


After a year on the road she mentioned that so far they’d had the time of their lives.

Yes, so far, is what she said – at that time decisions were being been made and they were soon to be off again to give it another go and see some of the things they missed. 
Impressions at that time (2022) – contrary to what some may have said – everything’s alive out there. 

Even during Covid times….Australia was a living thing!
(Cue 1978 memory)
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At that time I wondered how I’d feel when the words Good Bye were spoken again. There were mixed feelings on my part when they drove off…….. ever since she was young child we’d provided her with roots and wings which she’d acknowledged several times so I was comfortable waving her off………it was just that I knew they were looking for something different but didn’t know what……and of course when after another year had passed and they reached the other side, the far western side of Australia they knew that they had found it……that was the place they wanted to be.

She’s been back since then (latest Oct ‘24) – knowing they are living The Dream (their way) makes it easier to say those two words but it always leaves me in a reflective mood, wondering if time is running out – wondering if I’ve lived all my dreams, – are there any more waves for me to crest’?

How about you – do you ever feel like life is passing you by?

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8 Replies to “It’s a living thing….”

  1. I would only depress you with my thoughts.

    I think ELO would be a terrific band to see perform at The Bowl. I can see a clear mental picture of what it would have been like.

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  2. I would like to think that I am living my best life ( and maybe some days I am ) but the very unexpected death of a person who is my age has reminded me of the fragility of life. So, no I am probably not living my best life at all. Great thoughts to ponder on though!

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  3. I’m quite happy where I am. I certainly don’t feel as though life is passing me by. I don’t have to be out there having adventures or learning something new to be happy.

    I’m over that. Everyone’s different. I’m happy in my little niche

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  4. It must be bittersweet to see that daughter live her dream but so far away. My kids live across the country so I can relate.

    I think wondering if life has passed one by is not an unusual thought while aging. I think adventure and the “best life” comes in different ways for different folks. I try hard to find joy in the ordinary days.

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  5. Yes so hard to good bye, when my daughter said she and her husband were moving to Cambridge, which was 93 miles from me then,, she added Mum its not Australia.. but it might as well have been because, I hardly saw my grandchildren and these days not at ll. I hate it but they all have their own lives to live.

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