Dadโ€™s fun but spooky poemโ€ฆ.

My dad loved his daughtersโ€ฆ..didnโ€™t matter he longed for a son to carry on the family nameโ€ฆ..he welcomed us all equally.
(He did eventually get a son – 4 years to the day our โ€˜little sisterโ€™ was born)
Everywhere we went he was up for fun – hauling us up onto the big gun for a photo in Ward Park Bangor had mum complaining weโ€™d get dirty. Doesnโ€™t matter he said, theyโ€™d had a bit of fun and would remember it

I think Iโ€™ve mentioned before he was an Irishman who loved to singโ€ฆ.I’ve never met one who doesnโ€™t – I wonder if the breed exists??
We grew up in a house full of music
Never knowing when Dad would burst into song
or what would come out when he did

Belting it out at the pub

He could croon like Bing Crosby and Mum would pretend to swoon
There’d be the fun Irish songs
and then some days he’d come out with something by one of his favourite singers
Josef Locke
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Now not only did he sing but he was a dab hand at recitation
And what I was going to tell you about is what we used to call his spooky poem
One he performed with just the right amount of emotion and flairโ€ฆ..one we loved yet had us curled up together, retreating into the chair, anticipating what would come next

It began like thisโ€ฆ..
Up the hairy mountain
Down the rusty glenโ€ฆโ€ฆ
Oh no, thatโ€™s not quite the way it goes but to very young ears thatโ€™s the way it sounded๐Ÿคญ

The Fairies – 1850
William Allingham 1824 – 1889

Up the airy mountain,
Down the rushy glen,
We darenโ€™t go a-hunting
For fear of little men;
Wee folk, good folk,
Trooping all together;
Green jacket, red cap,
And white owlโ€™s feather!

The first verse is what we usually heard but now and again we were treated to the full poem. Which didnโ€™t please mum as she said it upset us. Not quite true, we loved it – even if it is a little confronting for some childrenโ€ฆโ€ฆ..dad had fun reciting it and seeing our reactions to the words. Itโ€™s just right for Halloween!

Down along the rocky shore
Some make their home,
They live on crispy pancakes
Of yellow tide-foam;
Some in the reeds
Of the black mountain-lake,
With frogs for their watchdogs,
All night awake.

High on the hill-top
The old King sits;
He is now so old and grey
Heโ€™s nigh lost his wits.
With a bridge of white mist
Columbkill he crosses,
On his stately journeys
From Slieveleague to Rosses;
Or going up with music
On cold starry nights,
To sup with the Queen
Of the gay Northern Lights.

They stole little Bridget
For seven years long;
When she came down again
Her friends were all gone.
They took her lightly back,
Between the night and morrow,
They thought that she was fast asleep,
But she was dead with sorrow.

They have kept her ever since
Deep within the lake,
On a bed of flag-leaves,
Watching till she wake.

By the craggy hillside
Through the mosses bare,
They have planted thorn trees
For pleasure, here and there.
Is any man so daring
As dig them up in spite,
He shall find their sharpest thorns
In his bed at night.

Up the airy mountain,
Down the rushy glen,
We darenโ€™t go a-hunting
For fear of little men;
Wee folk, good folk,
Trooping all together;
Green jacket, red cap,
And white owlโ€™s feather!

Irish poet William Allingham ~ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/William_Allingham

Published in book form by Thomas de La Rue. Illustrated by Emily Gertrude Thomson
Fabulous photographs and text from the book can be found HERE

The book can be found HERE at Internet Archive (https://archive.org)

Itโ€™s a living thingโ€ฆ.

Conversations with your children often bring up long forgotten memories)

Summer 1978 โ€“ The Golfer and I were the best parents in the world! 

At least thatโ€™s what we were told that warm February evening as we all sat near the front (not up the back โ€˜in the cheap seatsโ€™ on the grass) of the Myer Music Bowl waiting to hear this sung in real life

Sailinโ€™ away on the crest of a wave, itโ€™s like magic 
Oh, rollinโ€™ and ridinโ€™ and slippinโ€™ and slidinโ€™, itโ€™s magic 
And you and your sweet desire 
You took me, oh (higher and higher, baby)โ€ฆ

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Itโ€™s nearly four years since โ€˜our big girlโ€™ and her partner left town (towing their home behind them) looking forward to doing โ€™a big lapโ€™ of Australia. 


After a year on the road she mentioned that so far theyโ€™d had the time of their lives.

Yes, so far, is what she said โ€“ at that time decisions were being been made and they were soon to be off again to give it another go and see some of the things they missed. 
Impressions at that time (2022) โ€“ contrary to what some may have said โ€“ everythingโ€™s alive out there. 

Even during Covid timesโ€ฆ.Australia was a living thing!
(Cue 1978 memory)
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At that time I wondered how Iโ€™d feel when the words Good Bye were spoken again. There were mixed feelings on my part when they drove offโ€ฆโ€ฆ.. ever since she was young child weโ€™d provided her with roots and wings which sheโ€™d acknowledged several times so I was comfortable waving her offโ€ฆโ€ฆโ€ฆit was just that I knew they were looking for something different but didnโ€™t know whatโ€ฆโ€ฆand of course when after another year had passed and they reached the other side, the far western side of Australia they knew that they had found itโ€ฆโ€ฆthat was the place they wanted to be.

Sheโ€™s been back since then (latest Oct โ€˜24) – knowing they are living The Dream (their way) makes it easier to say those two words but it always leaves me in a reflective mood, wondering if time is running out โ€“ wondering if Iโ€™ve lived all my dreams, โ€“ are there any more waves for me to crestโ€™?

How about you โ€“ do you ever feel like life is passing you by?

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Yes, itโ€™s Fridayโ€ฆ.

No Fun Friday here today though

My friend Mr Insomniaโ€ฆโ€ฆ..has decided to visit again

Iโ€™m not feeling the best โ€“ in fact Iโ€™m feeling bโ€ฆ..awful
Iโ€™m thinking of having a break until I can find the cause
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I started this post awhile agoโ€ฆโ€ฆdidnโ€™t ever publish it. Did have a break earlier on this year and hereโ€™s the continuation of this sorry tale of woeโ€ฆโ€ฆ..

Everythingโ€ฆ..

There are days when all I hear is my motherโ€™s voice
โ€˜Everything comes to those who wait! ย โ€“ ย Patience is a virtue!โ€™
There are days I even acknowledge she might have been right ๐Ÿ˜Š

Things are a bit better now โ€“ Iโ€™m dropping off more quickly and staying asleep longer.  Yes, thereโ€™s been some of those dreaded 2hour cycles and there are still some of those โ€˜why canโ€™t I go back to sleep momentsโ€™ but they are definitely much less frequent than before.

With The Golferโ€™s help I gave the bedroom a deeper clean than usual, turned the mattress, added a small blanket beneath the sheepskin underlay on my side – I need the firm mattress but occasionally my back and hips โ€˜tell meโ€™ they would like it a tad softer – then finished off by changing my pillows to some from the spare room bed. ย The pillows (new in January) may not be the problem but thought no harm in trying so they could be reinstated some time

At the moment Iโ€™m also trying out a few handy hints :โ€“
* wind down earlier
* no screens before bedtime
* turn the clock face away
* now the nights have cooled a bit open window/fresh air in bedroom
* using the fan was a help for a breeze on those hot nights
* hot water bottle on some of the cool nights, itโ€™s comforting when my toes get cold.

Everything Iโ€™m doing/have done may be making a difference or the problem could just be going away naturally โ€“ whichever it is Iโ€™m definitely feeling more alive now.

As an asideโ€ฆ..I had to laugh, after a chat with my GP he more or less said the same as Mum would have โ€“ have patience, take it slowly, try working things out and often it just happens when you least expect it!

H is forโ€ฆ..

How do you think about where you live
House v Home

If you happen to show someone the building
Do you say โ€“ that is our house or that is our home?

There are lots of ideas out there on the WWW
Most seem to conclude that
A house is a physical structure with walls a roof and a door
A home can be anywhere you live, that place, that structure made pleasant and safe by the people who live there

So what about you?
What are your thoughts

Is it just
A House โ€“ something that you are living in
or
A Home โ€“ the place where you are living but also where you feel comfortable and safe.

Are you content and thankful just to have a roof over your head
or
do you feel you must have things around you that you are able to relate to
Things that prove this place is yours โ€“ give you a sense of identity

โ€˜Home is where the Heart isโ€™

We often talk about the โ€˜family homeโ€™
Does that mean that those who are single, widowed or divorced, those with no one to love or share their place with live in a home or is it just a house?

Do those owners of immaculate places have a house or a home ?

Does owning the place make any difference?

I know on the few occasions we have rented I found I couldnโ€™t form an attachment to the โ€˜Houseโ€™.  Thatโ€™s all it was โ€“ A House we were living in

Because of circumstances at those times, we were actually renting fully furnished so there wasnโ€™t much we could do to make the place โ€˜oursโ€™.  Yes, we had some bits and pieces and knick knacks to dot here and there around the house but
We could never change the paint colour, decorate or alter in any other form, and in some cases not even put a nail in the wall to hang pictures.
So I never felt it was our โ€˜Homeโ€™

Iโ€™d love to know how others have felt if theyโ€™ve experienced living that way.  Does being able to put your stamp on rented premises make it more homelike for you or have you accepted what has been offered as
โ€˜this is it at the momentโ€™.

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And what has put me into this ponderous mood?
A friendโ€™s grandchild is โ€˜moving outโ€™ and was talking about this very same thing the other day. The youngsterโ€™s not going very far thoughโ€ฆโ€ฆjust to the bottom of the garden into the Granny Flat that belonged to the other grandma๐Ÿ˜Š

And talking of homes letโ€™s spare a thought for those in the path of Cyclone Alfred as it makes its way towards the Queensland- New South Wales coastline. Unusual (but not unheard of)to have one come this far south itโ€™s forecast to cross land on Saturday morning

Iโ€™m hoping this (live) link is being updated:-.
https://www.smh.com.au/national/cyclone-alfred-live-updates-brisbane-south-east-queensland-braces-for-first-direct-impact-from-storm-in-50-years-northern-nsw-prepares-for-flooding-20250305-p5lh6c.html

https://www.smh.com.au/national/tracking-alfred-three-maps-show-the-cyclone-s-impact-20250305-p5lh5n.html

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What was that all aboutโ€ฆ..

Unhelpful remarks โ€ฆ.

They must be somewhere

Where did you last see them?

They’ll turn up

What do they look like?

Have you checked your pockets?

And you’re sure you’ve checked everywhere?

You had them earlier

They’ll be in the last place you looked

While this is happeningโ€ฆโ€ฆ.

Try the couch

The table

The armchair

The bed

The floor

The sink in the little toilet

The bedside locker

The chest of drawers

The mantelpiece

The laundry

The handbag

The shopping bag

Under the table

Under the chair

Under the couch

Under the bed

Under the papers on the floor

In the fridge

In the front door

Or maybe try the hook by the back door!!

Yes youโ€™ve guessed it โ€“ Catherine is looking for her keys lol

(and sheโ€™s not going to tell you where she found them๐Ÿ˜Š)

Do you ever wonderโ€ฆ..

Do you ever wonder what age you are at to be considered – Old

Iโ€™m a little confusedโ€ฆ..because in the quote below Iโ€™d be classed as
Very Oldโ€ฆโ€ฆ..Middle-Oldโ€ฆโ€ฆandโ€ฆโ€ฆ.Old

โ€ฆ..some gerontologists have recognized the diversity of old age by defining sub-groups. .
One study distinguishes the young-old (60 to 69), the middle-old (70 to 79), and the very old (80+).[16] .
Another study’s sub-grouping is young-old (65 to 74), middle-old (75 to 84), and oldest-old (85+).[17].
 A third sub-grouping is young-old (65 to 74), old (74 to 84), and old-old (85+) source

Or should I consider myself Old because like in this second quote – I canโ€™t do things as easily as I used to.

As people get older in years they donโ€™t tend to think of themselves as old until they canโ€™t do something they really want to that they used to be able to do,โ€ says Professor Ibrahim. source

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Iโ€™ve been very contemplative since we returned homeโ€ฆ..lots of thinking and wondering going on in my head. Wondering if I really am old, thinking about another birthday coming up. How on earth did I get to be 82?

Another week to go and Iโ€™ll be there – my birth certificate says thatโ€™s true
but my mind says otherwise.

October 1960, just turned 18 , madly in love with The Golfer and wondering what lies ahead

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September 2024 still wondering what lies ahead – and wishing Iโ€™d used the tweezers on my chin the day before

(and yes, the little photo-top right hand corner-was taken a while ago๐Ÿ™‚)

The things you findโ€ฆ

One 50yr old photo

One young 8yr old lad – soon to become a grandfather

One โ€˜brazen hussyโ€™ who actually had a waist – soon to become a gt grandma (again)

Fun Friday โ€“ the day to leave all the worries of the week behind you

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The price we payโ€ฆ..

Boxing Day sales arenโ€™t on my radar these days.
Gone are the trips to the city for bargains only found in the main department stores that lined Bourke Street.
That became a thing of the past when they started migrating to the suburbs.โ€‚Opening branches in the large shopping centres that were springing up far from the CBD.
Sadly the โ€˜bargainsโ€™ didnโ€™t seem to follow them.
Sales seemed to appear regularly but nothing like those in the old days.

For a while now Iโ€™ve been saying we need new pillows- our rubber/latex/memory foam ones (call them what you like) had gone a bit flat, yes I know pillows are flat, perhaps what I mean is they werenโ€™t comfortable anymore.โ€‚.
So off I went shopping.
Not on Boxing Day but on New Yearโ€™s Eve when it was a little bit quieter.โ€‚Not in the city but just 6km down the road.

Itโ€™s a fair while since I bought pillows so stepped away very quickly from the shelves in horror- sticker shock – have they risen in price ?
Too bloody right they have!
And the number of brands getting in on the actโ€‚selling them has increased as well.
So after taking a little longer than I thought I would – price comparison does my head in these days – Iโ€™m up to the till – paid – and off home – where I needed a sit down with a cuppa to recover.

Iโ€™d bought myself a slightly different one than The Golferโ€™s – which after Iโ€™d put in a case and then on the bed realised was a mistake.โ€‚It sat too high. Shades of Goldilocks and The Three Bears as I lay there testing The Golferโ€™s and deciding his would have been a better choice for me as well!

Knowing some items can be returned and others not (sale or otherwise) I decided to chance my luck a few days later and try for a refund.
*โ€˜Oh not sure about thatโ€ฆhealth regulationsโ€ฆ.
โ€˜Just placed on the bed
*โ€˜Oh dear, on the bedโ€ฆ.
โ€˜Yes, but in a pillow case. Not slept on.โ€‚If itโ€™s a problem Iโ€™ll take it home (and to myself – just swallow the $100 loss.โ€‚Better than the $200 full retail though)
*โ€˜Iโ€™ll see what I can doโ€ฆ.

Credit refund back on card and I return to the bedding dept – slightly different signage.
Still says โ€˜Sale priceโ€™ though so pick up the one I came for and return to till
Different cashier – thatโ€™ll be $99 please
Pardon – I paid $35 for one in the sale the other day and the signage says sale finishes on the 6th and itโ€™s only the 3rd today
But that sale (up to 31st) was for Everyoneโ€™โ€™ – this sale (from 1st to 6th) is โ€˜Members Onlyโ€™
Are you a member??
Noโ€ฆ.
Well the retail price for the pillow is $99
Members sale price is $29.99 which is less than you paid the other day
All I need is your name and phone number for you to buy at the lower price

Itโ€™s a very comfortable pillow – sits evenly alongside The Golferโ€™s – and should last a while ๐Ÿ˜Š

Train Tram & Ferry

(Sitting in drafts unpublished from last year – took place Saturday 9 April 2022)

โ€˜We can get off at Flinders Street and walkโ€™ he said. โ€˜How far, how long?โ€™ I asked

โ€˜Not too farโ€™ he said. โ€˜A couple of kmsโ€™. โ€˜Youโ€™re jokingโ€™ I replied

โ€™OK, well weโ€™ll get off at Spencer Street, and go over that way. Itโ€™s about a 15 min walkโ€™

โ€˜Not sure I can make that after sitting on a hard train seat for 45mins. Itโ€™s Saturday, so change at Ringwood then stopping all stations to the cityโ€™ I said.

โ€˜Alright then, Iโ€™ll forgo my morning walk. We can get off at Flinders Street and take the tram right to the dockโ€™ he said.

Oh the joys of living with a back condition that can impede walking – and a man able to walk an 18hole golf course with no problems at all.

And this was the place to be – at the Melbourne Ferry Terminal
Victoria Harbour
waiting for the ferry to Portarlington

We had the Lady Cutler on our left, the Bolte Bridge in front and the pineapple looking Banksia Apartments along with the leaning Marina Tower to the right

Bolte Bridge dead ahead

Be prepared- a welcome?? sight as you wait to board

On our way now sailing past some little wooden boats outside The Victorian Wooden Boat Centre. The Enterprize (replica) was docked alongside there as well.

Now weโ€™re all out to sea – well not quite. . .
just dodging the Saturday sailors as we begin our way across the bay
(Port Philip Bay)

Then it was all aboard for a special trip – a gift for a special anniversary.
Sail, Rail & Dine – delayed a whole year because of โ€˜you know whatโ€™.
https://www.theqtrain.com.au

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A stop at Suma Park allowed people to get off and stretch their legs. There was nothing โ€˜arrangedโ€™ there so it was just wander up and down admiring the carriages and the engine if you walked that far forward (plus a very nice bench which I couldnโ€™t resist). We could see staff tidying up the dining rooms preparing to serve desserts when we got back on, so true to form for many of them, when the time came, smokers whoโ€™d been asked to stand away from the train all left it as late as possible – puffing away then stamping it out just before they scrambled onboard.

Our girls bought the gift thinking we were going to be pulled by the steam engine – sadly he was booked for a special weekend event .. but we did get a glimpse of him further up the track ๐Ÿ˜Š

Then it was time to get the coach back to Portarlington to connect with the ferry back to Docklands. No sitting outside on the return trip, this is how it was all the way across the bay. Dark clouds and strong winds!

Weโ€™d planned to wander round the Docklands area but it was cool, wet and windy when we got off the ferry – the tram and train home to our far eastern suburb sounded like a far better idea.

April 8 1961 – April 9 2022

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Where oh where have my little men goneโ€ฆ..

Oh where, oh where, can they be?

(I published this elsewhere 5 years ago and am still looking ๐Ÿค”)

My paternal grandad (the one who was gone before I arrived) had two brothers plus several half brothers  Deaths in Ireland in the mid 1800s were frequent so his father (my gt grandfather) was married twice.

The habit of giving children family given names โ€“ 1st son usually got their paternal grandfatherโ€™s name (plus more sometimes) likewise for daughters being given maternal grandmotherโ€™s names and so on โ€“ makes it so hard to pin point and attach the correct John, James, or even Archibald (who calls their child Archibald โ€“ my family obviously because it seems like there are hundreds of them out there) or even anyone else for that matter to the correct family.  John Smith could have 5 sons who each have a son, which means there you are, thereโ€™s 5 more John Smiths often with only a few years between them.

When my gt grandad named the boys in his second family he obviously couldnโ€™t carry on the way he was going โ€“ heโ€™d used up all the male names from both his and his deceased wifeโ€™s extended families which meant the new sons ended up with slightly different ones that originated in the new wifeโ€™s family.

So when associated with an unusual surname youโ€™d think theyโ€™d be easy to find in amongst all the online records available on various family history sites.  Youโ€™d think??.

Iโ€™ve found the correct birth records for all three brothers plus 1901 Irish census and theyโ€™re filed awayโ€ฆโ€ฆ Iโ€™ve located a marriage certificate, 1911 Irish census record as well as a death cert. for my grandad (my dadโ€™s dad) but nothing more for the other two.

The trouble is so many in their family or extended family from other counties all with the same surname (and at times with the same given names) decided life would be better elsewhere and hopped on ships to sail to other lands.  Passenger records are interesting in that sometimes the name recorded could be a full set of given names plus family name or any one of abbreviations/nicknames the person is calledโ€ฆ..  Alexander James could be that or Alex or Alec or James (if his father has the same name) or even Jimmy!

Then thereโ€™s the case of illiteracyโ€ฆโ€ฆ.lack of reading and writing skillsโ€ฆโ€ฆโ€ฆ.or even bad hearing in a noisy environmentโ€ฆ..where names spoken arenโ€™t always transcribed with the same spelling. ย My father was adamant one of his grandmothers was a Muldoon โ€“ yes that, plus the McIldoon – McEldoon or Mโ€™Eldoon which Iโ€™ve found on legal docs. ย Same with his other grandma โ€“ sheโ€™s recorded as being Mary Mโ€™Endoo or McAdoo or McAdor! ย Northern Ireland accents could fool even the locals lol

That little saying up above is what my dad told me when I gave him his first grandchild.  Tell him about where the family came from but don’t stop him flying away to see what the rest of the world is like.

Now if anyone knows where my Thomas Henry ***** and his brother Joseph Arthur ***** have flown off to could you tell them their gt niece Catherine is looking for them ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Ž

For those who also โ€˜talk to the moonโ€™

I mentioned to my โ€˜next sisterโ€™ that I was becoming like our โ€˜ little sisterโ€™ and drinking tea while talking to the moon.
Always a โ€˜poor sleeperโ€™ little sister Patsy was renowned for her middle of the night tea breaks . . . This poem came back by return mail.

(not written by her – something sheโ€™d found during middle of the night browsing. She too has become a tea drinking moon chatting person ๐Ÿ˜Š).
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I met the moon for coffee
It was Friday night I think
When she watched me hardly sleeping
And invited me for drinks

We found ourselves a table
In the middle of the night
And the constellations twinkled
Like a thousand fairy lights

She asked me how Iโ€™d been
As she poured coffee from a pot
For she said sheโ€™d watched me
Waking up at midnight quite a lot

I said my brain was far too full
My mind was always on
And when I woke it felt as if
I was the only one

The only one who lay awake
Whilst I sat on my bed
With thoughts that raced at lightning speed
Around my busy head

The only one who watched the clock
Tick one and two and three
Who laid awake and worried
Whilst the world was fast asleep

My thoughts were stuck in orbit
And I couldnโ€™t pull them back
As they preferred to swim against
A sky so vast and black

The moon said simply nothing
But she opened up a book
And I saw it was a diary
So I took a closer look

And listed there were names of people
All around the world
And all the thoughts and worries
That the moon had overheard

Just then, my eyes were drawn towards
The name that was my own
And that was when the moon said
โ€œSee, you shouldnโ€™t feel aloneโ€

And then she pulled me close
Using the night sky as a blanket
And said โ€œI know you sometimes feel
So lonely on this planet

But when you cannot sleep,
Get up and watch me from your room
And youโ€™ll see so many others
Having coffee with the moonโ€


Becky Hemsley 2022
Artwork: Natalia Maroz

*******

Said many a knitter. . .

There are a lot of flying hours between Australia and North America or Europe. Across the Atlantic as well
Those hours are not happy ones if some official decides to spoils your fun.

These days Iโ€™m prepared with a spare โ€˜setโ€™ in my big bag in the hold
Trying to explain to the other half why I needed a craft shop in a strange city wasnโ€™t a good way to start a 6 week overseas trip. ๐Ÿงถโค๏ธ๐Ÿงถ

Backyard Buildsโ€ฆ

Seeing this little โ€˜rusticโ€™ outdoor area on a blog recently
brought back all sorts of memories of the time (a few years ago now) I asked The Golfer if heโ€™d build me a little summer house (to use in the winter)

What I had in mind was something like this ๐Ÿ‘‡ – maybe not so large- but light and airy so I could enjoy our winter sunshine and not be cooped up indoors

โ€˜Let me think about itโ€™ was all I got
A week later it changed to โ€˜wonโ€™t be anywhere near that size and definitely not made from new doors & windows!โ€™.
Then he asked โ€˜does it have to have closing doors?โ€™
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Then he asked if I knew anyone doing home renovations- changing doors or even windows- demolishing an old house even – sorry no
OK Iโ€™ll call into some builders yards – you know those salvage yards where they sell all that second hand stuff.
No such thing as โ€˜looking onlineโ€™ then
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Then it was โ€˜do they all have to match??โ€™
What about something like this – describing a sitting area like these below .
โ€˜Interestingโ€™ I said, seeing my โ€˜dreamโ€™ diminish

Out came a quick sketch of something much smaller, plus โ€˜all we need is four doors, a bit of wood for the roof and maybe a pallet for the floorโ€™.
But you might be waiting a bit because
have you seen the price of second hand doors and windows ???

Needless to say I never did get my little summer house๐Ÿ˜Ž.

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Are we having funโ€ฆ.

Oh, the weather outside is frightful
But the fire is so delightful
And since we’ve no place to goโ€ฆ.because golf was cancelled
Let it snow! Let it snow! Let it snow!.

Let it rain! Let it pour! Let it flood!.

(The predicted wet weather arrived – itโ€™s very wet and almost like winter!)

This new tv has arrived at just the right time
Itโ€™s kept The Golfer occupied
Not actually watching anything
Just discovering what mysteries are located in the settings

The latest discovery – voice control!
He doesnโ€™t have to use his finger to change channels
He can just ask the voice assistant
I really need to know her name because heโ€™s become quite friendly with her this past week

Not to warn her off but thank her for keeping him out of my way๐Ÿ˜Š




Three remotes on the counterโ€ฆ.

Three remotes on the bench – which one will you choose?

When we left town in July we had a television that might not have been used all that often but was working well, even though at 17yrs it was getting on a bit (compared to modern standards that is)
Returned home and it started to play upโ€ฆturning itself back on from mute plus the sound kept rising all on its own accordโ€ฆ.responding to the remote at times, then defiantly staying at ear splitting level 100.
New batteries were no help – set top controls not working either.
So the decision was made!

There was lots of measuring (limited space where it will live) looking/ comparing/ discussing at home then repeated live in the store. In the end it was โ€˜thatโ€™ll doโ€™ – it fits the space and doesnโ€™t seem too complicated plus there was a bit of price negotiations (โ€œwe donโ€™t usually match that placeโ€ prove youโ€™re a member etc etc) which ended well and saved us travelling further afield. The enormous box just fitted across the back seat which saved us โ€˜persuadingโ€™ one of our boys to pick it upโ€ฆ.

Then it was onto the rigmarole fun and games weโ€™d heard about called โ€˜setting it upโ€™.
We sort of knew it wasnโ€™t going to be a case of turn it on and away you go but oh dear, this was a new experience (hopefully not to be repeated any day soon) who knew it would be such a palaver trying to connect it to the house wifi.

Anyway this new television came with clunky strange shaped โ€˜smart tv magic remoteโ€™ that does more than the usual on/off softer/louder change channel stuff – remember weโ€™re really latecomers to this game and learning ways to use itโ€ฆ.when there are only basic instructions includedโ€ฆ.has been interesting.
Attempts at trying to direct/guide a cursor by waving this unfamiliar object in the air were frustrating (for both of us) โ€ฆI had to leave the room a couple of times, my suggestions were not welcomed at all ๐Ÿ˜Š

And this is where the tale of the three remote controls beginsโ€ฆ

A while ago some of the buttons on the original remote for the previous set were playing up so The Golfer got himself a universal one, a new โ€˜better, everything worked oneโ€™, I was content with the original (give it a bash tap on the chair and the buttons worked again ๐Ÿ˜Š)
Saved me asking him to change channels or alter the sound although there had been words โ€˜spokenโ€™ (by me) if he got annoyed tired of watching adverts and started looking around at other programmes forgetting we – not just he – were in the middle of watching something.

โ€˜So I suppose we just toss theseโ€™ said a rather unhappy Catherine looking at the two discarded ones.
There were visions of โ€˜change the channel please – turn it up a bit, I canโ€™t hear it – cut the noise, I canโ€™t hear youโ€™ returning to the lounge room.
Plus having to actually locate the thing if needed. Things have a habit of being covered up or sliding down the side of chairs.
โ€˜Well theyโ€™re not going to work, are theyโ€™ he said.
โ€˜Iโ€™ll just tryโ€™ she said, Fingers crossed, hoping hoping
Surprise Surpriseโ€ฆagainst all odds she was pleasantly surprised to find the old original one does.
So does the universal one, except it just sits ignored beside a certain personโ€™s chair, because heโ€™s happy playing with his new beaut one.

So things have returned to โ€˜normalโ€™ our lounge room, Catherine still gets to change channels and control the sound if she wants to without having to wrestle verbally (or physically๐Ÿ˜Š) with another (who has a habit of guarding those black things with his lifeโ€ฆ.just jokingโ€ฆ.but it does seem like that at times)

Remember when..

18 yr old Catherine (below) would often tell her parents she would never join the โ€˜When Weโ€™ club. That was their pet name for the recollections some people often have. . .usually beginning โ€œDo you remember when (we) ****โ€ – or when bragging rights appear โ€œwell, when we did this that or the otherโ€ which usually was much better than anyone else taking part in the conversation.

Then she met The Golfer who even as a young man was a master member of the club – at that time his โ€˜questioningโ€™ was usually when surrounded by other servicemen heโ€™d served with – about different places and events relevant to them all. In later years it is still about the same thingsโ€ฆ.service personnel never lose their memories of familiar connections that bind them to each other.

These days his โ€˜remember whenโ€™sโ€™ have also become memory joggers – if he canโ€™t quite place a time or event – hopefully Catherine can๐Ÿ˜Š

In the mean time Catherineโ€ฆwho stood by her word and still wonโ€™t start a conversation with those words โ€ฆ.has been noticing recently all those young ones who visit the bay early in the morning are fit and healthy.

Itโ€™s not uncommon to see them (singly or in a group) facing east, looking out at the ocean, practicing their Salute to the Sun plus various other poses right there on the sands.

And in her mind, silently, she has been โ€˜remembering whenโ€™

When it was all so easyโ€ฆ.

Yes, there are other ways to achieve the same benefit butโ€ฆ..
*****

Hereโ€™s a short standing versionโ€ฆ

And a slightly longer seated oneโ€ฆ

It appears..

Or so I have been told โ€ฆ..by some of my children โ€ฆ.that more than one of these โ€˜sayingsโ€™ came out of my mouth when they were growing up

And just by coincidence this arrived from my sisterโ€ฆ.

โ€ฆ..if our mother were still here weโ€™re thinking sheโ€™d be saying the same thing

Because – we definitely remember many of these โ€˜sayingโ€™sโ€™ (plus the ones above) coming out of her mouth when we were growing up ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

Were any of these heard in your house?
Or did you have very patient mothers?

Sometimes..

Sometimes you just have to shake your head and look the other way

When we are away Screwdrivers and Multigrips usually live in the car
but when the wheels drop off the โ€˜not old old but definitely not newโ€™ golf โ€˜carry the clubsโ€™ thingy aka cart/buggy (or something goes wrong with something that connects the wheels to the golf thingy) it appears they are allowed to take up residence next to the bed

Thinking about buying a new one ๐Ÿคจ meant an hours drive down the Bruce Highway to try Airlie Beach and then on to Proserpine, which produced nothing – none in stock/ no call for that size – a size slightly different to the regular one he uses – one that folds up to just the right size to fit in the boot of the car when weโ€™re travelling (and leave room for other things as well) – so it was back to the cabin to size up the situation and call on his โ€˜make do and mendโ€™ mentality.

The repairs involved metal coil things, cable ties, straps and nuts/bolts
Hurrah for local hardware places
Not as elegant as a new one but a darn sight cheaper!

(Itโ€™ll hold until we leave for home and then heโ€™ll have all summer to think about a replacement or a better repair)


And weโ€™re off again..

Happy Days are here again ๐Ÿ˜Ž

Taking a little drive โ€˜up the roadโ€™ – leaving very early this Friday morning
(A week later than planned due to an unexpected medical appointment).
Travelling via Parkes, Goondiwindi and Rockhampton
with (hopefully) no floods, fires or state border closures to hinder usโ€ฆ..
it might be a bit wet somewhere along the line though courtesy of an unseasonal front making itโ€™s way cross country west to east. Bowen is expecting a โ€˜drop or twoโ€™ on Monday!
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-06-28/unusual-widespread-winter-rain-predicted-for-queensland/102525130

2,400 kms

Weโ€™ve done this 4day drive so many times we usually know what to expect – apart from the unusual aforesaid floods, fires and border closuresโ€ฆ.there could be roadworks, unexpected health issues like last year or the odd early morning close encounter with roadside grazing โ€˜roos to contend with but generally itโ€™s smooth sailing all the way. Yes, itโ€™s a fair way to drive but with regular stops and both of us taking the wheel for two hour stints the days seem to pass by quite quickly.

~ ~ ~ ~
A few years ago someone on another site once asked how we coped being together in a small space for that length of timeโ€ฆ.

โ€œ โ€ฆDay one starts excitedly, weโ€™re a bit hyped up having spent the last few days making sure we have everything ready and packed in the car so it takes us till lunchtime to relax and get into the swing of things. By the end of the day all this catches up with us and we are glad to get to our first stop.

Day two we start to bicker โ€“ happens each time!

Even tho we have bits and pieces in the car (to read, craft and listen to) as well as drinks and snacks I think itโ€™s the effects of sleeping in a strange bed and the prospect of another long day on the road that brings on this stupidity โ€“ as thats what it is.

โ€˜Why are you changing the radio station โ€“ I was listening to that CD, why are you changing it โ€“ why have you changed the heating/cooling โ€“ what do you mean keep both hands on the wheel โ€“ this one when you can see for miles ahead and thereโ€™s not another thing in sight!โ€™  Silly little things.  

By day three its back to normal again, itโ€™s as if weโ€™ve settled down into a better routine knowing and accepting thereโ€™s nothing we can do about the size of our great land and as weโ€™ve chosen to drive and not fly thats all there is to it.

Day four is a โ€˜short dayโ€™ the excitement is back again, we know we are on the last leg of the journey to our final destination and relaxationโ€ฆ.โ€

~ ~ ~ ~
Weโ€™ll be heading home after Fatherโ€™s Day – mid September
but Iโ€™m sure Iโ€™ll be chatting to you before then ๐Ÿ˜˜.
โ€ฆ โ€ฆ โ€ฆ โ€ฆ

Added here to sayโ€ฆ..weโ€™ve arrived!.
In spite of it being a bit of a damp journey it was made more pleasant by seeing a double rainbow at West Wyalong and discovering ( thanks to multicultural resettlement programs) the โ€˜chefโ€™ at the local Namoi Hotel in Narrabri makes the most delicious Nepalese Chicken Curry

The โ€˜unseasonal frontโ€™ is still making itself knownโ€ฆ..Bowen is putting on its cool cloudy dull side this week. Rain coming down in torrents, cover on the bed, warm clothing making an appearance and no sun to be seen – hopefully itโ€™ll change by the weekend.

Sharing with Denyseโ€™s weekly link up Wednesdayโ€™s Words & Pic
Why donโ€™t you pop over and see whoโ€™s visiting her today