Oh where oh where can they be?
My paternal grandad (the one who was gone before I arrived) had two brothers plus several half brothers Deaths in Ireland in the mid 1800s were frequent so his father was married twice.
The habit of giving children family given names – 1st son usually got their paternal grandfather’s name (plus more sometimes) likewise for daughters being given grandmother’s names and so on – makes it so hard to pin point and attach the correct John, James, or Archibald (who calls their child Archibald – my family obviously because it seems like there are hundreds of them out there) or even anyone else for that matter to the correct family. John Smith could have 5 sons who each have a son, which means there you are, theres 5 more John Smiths often with only a few years between them 😊
When my gt grandad named the boys in his second family he obviously couldn’t carry on the way he was going – he’d used up all the male names from both his and his deceased wife’s extended families which meant the new sons ended up with slightly different ones that originated in the new wife’s family.
So when associated with an unusual surname you’d think they’d be easy to find in amongst all the online records available on various family history sites. You’d think?? I’ve found the correct birth records for all three brothers plus 1901 Irish census and they’re filed away…… I’ve located a marriage certificate, 1911 Irish census record as well as a death cert. for my grandad (my dad’s dad) but nothing more for the other two.
The trouble is so many in their family or extended family from other counties all with the same surname (and lots with the same given names) decided life would be better elsewhere and hopped on ships to sail to other lands. Paasenger records are interesting in that sometimes the name recorded could be a full set of given names plus family name or any one of abreviations/nicknames the person is called….. Alexander James could be that or Alex or Alec Or James (if his father has the same name) or even Jimmy!
Then there’s the case of illiteracy…….lack of reading and writing skills……….or even bad hearing in a noisy environment…..where names spoken aren’t always transcribed with the same spelling. My father was adamant one of his grandmothers was a Muldoon – yes that, plus McIldoon or McEldoon or M’Eldoon which I’ve found on legal docs. Same with his other grandma – she’s recorded as being Mary M’Endoo or McAdoo or McAdor! Northern Ireland accents could fool even the locals lol
That little saying up above is what my dad told me when I gave him his first grandchild. Tell him about where the family came from but don’t stop him flying away to see what the rest of the world is like.
Now if anyone knows where my Thomas Henry ***** and his brother Joseph Arthur ***** are could you tell them their gt niece Catherine is looking for them 😊😎