Friday has arrived – once again It’s Mum’s alphabet blogging day
And the letter of the week is H
How do you think about where you live
House v Home
If you happen to show someone the building
Do you say – that is our house or that is our home?
There are lots of ideas out there on the WWW.
Most seem to conclude that
A house is a physical structure with walls a roof and a door
A home can be anywhere you live, that place, that structure made pleasant and safe by the people who live there
So what about you?
What are your thoughts
Is it just
A House – something that you are living in
A Home – the place where you are living but also where you feel comfortable and safe.
Are you content and thankful just to have a roof over your head
do you feel you must have things around you that you are able to relate to.
Things that prove this place is yours – give you a sense of identity
‘Home is where the Heart is’
We often talk about the ‘family home’
Does that mean that those who are single, widowed or divorced, those with no one to love or share their place with live in a home or is it just a house?
Do those owners of immaculate places have a house or a home ?
Does owning the place make any difference?
To me it does
I know on the few occasions we have rented I found I couldn’t form an attachment to the ‘House’. That’s all it was – A House we were living in.
Because of circumstances at those times, we were actually renting fully furnished so there wasn’t much we could do to make the place ‘ours’. Yes, we had some bits and pieces and knick knacks to dot here and there around the house but
We could never change the paint colour, decorate or alter in any other form, and in some cases not even put a nail in the wall to hang pictures.
So I never felt it was our ‘Home’
I’d love to know how others have felt if they’ve experienced living that way. Does being able to put your stamp on rented premises make it more homelike for you or have you accepted what has been offered as
‘this is it at the moment’.
Does this strike you as a beautiful home?
Snapped in Far North Queensland by The Golfer
(where else but near a golf course lol)
A Bowerbird’s Bower aka as a folly
(Possibly belonging to a Great Bowerbird)
I used to think these were actually the home of the Bowerbird
but it seems that is not so. They are built by the male to try and entice the female to come by and see what a jolly good fella he is.
They would make a lovely home tho. Fully furnished and decorated, ready to move in.
The bowers aren’t nests for raising kids; they are bachelor pads designed to attract and seduce one or more mates. When a female arrives to inspect the bower, the male struts and sings. He hopes to convince her to enter the bower, where mating takes place. The female then flies off to build a nest close by, leaving the male to try to convince another female to join in a romantic tryst.
This link explains about all the different sorts of decorations – not always blue
Next week will be the letter G -why don’t you join in too